Individuality is who you are creating; Spirit is who you are becoming; when you have only yourself to rely on you begin to trust it. Example: You are your own confidence and value, love and joy, richness and success. You are all individual people gathered together in the name of family, friends, loved ones, or, in the establishment of organized religions, politics, science, industry and technology. Units are important but the true unit is between mind, body and soul, between Human and Spirit, between Spirit and power and wisdom.
When you understand individuality you detach yourself from the human ties that bind and you treat all equally. It severs human concepts of unity and loyalty. Be loyal to yourself, the trueness of yourself. Example: Does a choice of loyalty produce a feeling of love towards the power source? Is there victory in being in the power source? Or - is it loyalty to others and their issues that makes your day? Value is determined by your loyalty to yourself – false loyalty serves no one. After all, doesn’t the Being you are becoming or are have the most wondrous, positive power and your best interests at heart? Sever the hold of other’s expectations for they are not yours but only in the mind of others. Be your own person – free to be all you need to be; knowing you desire only the highest and the best. You have principles, morals and character; begin to rely on those fine qualities to live your own life. You will still share with others but you are not dependant or reliant on them.
You are an individual Spirit Being; what you are sharing or expressing is your individuality, your talents, gifts and abilities, who and what you really are. You are not individually responsible for another’s issues. Yes, you will help but not make it your issue any longer.
Everyone must be an individual but in life, human life, there is no individuality. Example: Individuality of life; individuality of your own person. The issue is the human perspective of love and family loyalty; this is the connection. This is where a person gets lost and gives up their freedom or true individuality. You must throw out the human hat and put on your halo. Example: Your individual true self. Those nearest and dearest to us cause us the most problems because we think we are responsible for them. Be responsible for your happiness and success, not others. Be responsible for yourself then you can share or express who and what you really are. Start looking at your own thoughts, emotions and actions, mind, body and soul as one unit that works together. See, feel and experience the energy all flowing, harmonizing and working together.
THE TRUE MEANING OF INDIVIDUALITY
Individuality, in a spiritual sense, means: not being divided inside one’s own self. It’s the unity of your thoughts, emotions and actions. It’s what you choose to see, feel and experience. As an evolving Being you get to determine what you will see, feel and experience as an individual where you retain choice, control, creation; all aspects. It’s an action united into one Being for one purpose which is totally separate from others but doing that which is right and appropriate for that is who and what one is.
There is so much emphasis placed on others that one may lose their own identity in trying to be all to others and in the process are nothing to themselves. Then, the reverse is taken where one is so focused on themselves they feel segregated from others and they grasp onto sharing humanly as a means to be part of the group. While that sounds better and in many cases makes one feel better, for now they have something to contribute to the world; it’s still a human act that has a reason, a motive behind it and requires human thoughts as to who is worthy of what one has, who needs it, who wants it and so on. No one can actually share in this manner for it has so much humanness and judgment behind it that it loses its value. That is not to say one will not share but if done with this intention it is a human act.
Individuality, in the true sense, is having everything that you are, working as one, being one in all its goodness and greatness. So, whatever you are being, doing and expressing is in every thought, emotion, action, choice and decision; in everything you are seeing, feeling and experiencing throughout every aspect of the self and in all of life itself.
Think of your inner soul self for a moment: all those elements, pre-programmed energies, the power and wisdom that are not individual anymore for one choice gets all from love to resolution. Example: “All I am is in all I choose and do; all the elements, all the power and wisdom”. One choice needs all and as you are the power you have control; any choice of an element can be created. Do you understand what is happening? There is a flow of power that moves through and around you so what you are is an individual in the power and wisdom.
The true sense of individuality is the element that you choose to bring into your thoughts, emotions and actions; and especially the action part now. If you brought into your actions love, positivity, truth – that makes you an individual Being.
Then there is the other part, in that, there must be an openness and willingness to let into all aspects of your human self this love, positivity and truth. So, your individuality is not only what you choose to bring into your actions but also how much of this love, positivity and truth [all the elements] you are willing to let in and to openly express in action. This is what constitutes your true individuality.
Initially you must become aware of the human actions that you are taking in your life. When you become aware of them you realize that they don’t have any power or wisdom in those actions and then you are consciously determining to bring the elements or pre-programmed energies, not only into your thoughts and emotions, but also now into your actions.
It is not the time spent on any particular action that is important but the choice one makes of which element[s] they will use in that action that is important; then it’s the joy of being in the action taken.
The emphasis has always been on the ‘being’; to be all that you can be with the power from the choices that one makes. The doing is a natural step that follows the being but it’s not deliberate; it’s simply a part of what you already are being. The having is the result of what you are, the Being you are, the choices you make, which takes action by doing something, even if it’s only seeing, feeling and experiencing it in your higher consciousness for that is the personal acknowledgment of who and what you really are. In truth, the being, doing and having are not separate parts to perform but naturally follow the process to completion.
Individuality become the key to ‘oneness’ for it separates you from the humanness and mass-consciousness of the world, which makes you responsible for your own choices or your own thoughts, emotions and actions or what you are going to see, feel and experience in the reality of your own mind and your world. And yet, individuality may just make you an intrinsic part of the world as an example and inspiration that proves one can be all by being an individual; alone but self-reliant, in control, powerful and evolving into more.
Individuality is not sharing through the human concepts but being and expressing all that you are and others may see, feel and experience that power and choose to benefit from it or not. Let the power work for you. Don’t make it a power to work on; make it your power to live in. You are the choice-maker only and one choice gets all the power and wisdom; it’s simply a matter of determining what you desire in this moment and all is provided.